06-13-2012, 04:53 PM
And to Ma...How do you compare family to someone somebody has fucked? Tell me how that works please.
Just an aesthetic. Which daughter was pspence talking about? Do we know? Do we know her name? No. We only know that one of her family members had some issues that appear to have been dealt with. That's the comparison. I know Cracker has been divorced twice. Clearly she has some issues about mating in confinement. Not a bad thing. Clearly her unconfined sex has been better for all concerned than the intimacy she shared in marriage. I know all this without knowing any of the players personally or who they are. This translates to the same thing to me.
I think what's important in this discernment is the twisting up of pspences intent. You call her an attention whore for revealing aspects of he RL in context. I didn't see anyone get all up in Sallys shit when she spoke about her private Red River Valley when she had an iud inserted. How did it come out that Cracker was divorced twice? She had to have revealed that at some point. If she has regrets about it, that's her business.
It appears to me that people need to step back just a bit and look at shit without so much charge to it. Cracker should be able to say what her boundaries are, and people should respect them. Like I don't like pedo talk at all, I think abusing children is a crime punishable by death, or worse. So I stay out of threads where that shit starts to pop up (some of the crime threads I just can't read) those are my issues. I don't go after LC and tell her that certain things shouldnt be discussed because they make me uncomforatble, I just say scroll.
people get into bad habits on communities like this, that's part of it. Ramsey is no less to blame for these exchanges than anyone else. I just don't judge anyone anymore. I enjoy all the dynamics, even the ugly ones. :popcorn:
Just an aesthetic. Which daughter was pspence talking about? Do we know? Do we know her name? No. We only know that one of her family members had some issues that appear to have been dealt with. That's the comparison. I know Cracker has been divorced twice. Clearly she has some issues about mating in confinement. Not a bad thing. Clearly her unconfined sex has been better for all concerned than the intimacy she shared in marriage. I know all this without knowing any of the players personally or who they are. This translates to the same thing to me.
I think what's important in this discernment is the twisting up of pspences intent. You call her an attention whore for revealing aspects of he RL in context. I didn't see anyone get all up in Sallys shit when she spoke about her private Red River Valley when she had an iud inserted. How did it come out that Cracker was divorced twice? She had to have revealed that at some point. If she has regrets about it, that's her business.
It appears to me that people need to step back just a bit and look at shit without so much charge to it. Cracker should be able to say what her boundaries are, and people should respect them. Like I don't like pedo talk at all, I think abusing children is a crime punishable by death, or worse. So I stay out of threads where that shit starts to pop up (some of the crime threads I just can't read) those are my issues. I don't go after LC and tell her that certain things shouldnt be discussed because they make me uncomforatble, I just say scroll.
people get into bad habits on communities like this, that's part of it. Ramsey is no less to blame for these exchanges than anyone else. I just don't judge anyone anymore. I enjoy all the dynamics, even the ugly ones. :popcorn: