09-10-2012, 10:43 AM
I think it depends on how close of a friend that person is. I roomed with the same girl every year in college and knew she had a tremendous crush on this guy. He asked me out instead, but I told him I could not do that to her (even though I wanted to date him). Turns out that a year later they started dating and got married right after graduation. Still together 47 years later. She never knew he asked me out.............unless he told her. I considered her friendship more important.