09-10-2012, 11:57 AM
I don't know if I am a good friend. I just presume that if a person who calls me friend doesn't say anything to the contrary, then I am. As for loyalty - I am loyal to the point of helping you bury a body as long as I think you don't screw me over.
As for the situation you described - it depends on so many factors - am I deeply in love? Is my friend deeply in love? Is there any chance in hell that man will ever choose my friend, even if I am not part of the equation? If it's less than love we are talking about, then hey, maybe a threesome is an alternative? I any case, I would talk about it with my friend. If she's really my friend, then we can sort it out. (Been there, done it, she's still my best friend and he's my ex.)
As for the situation you described - it depends on so many factors - am I deeply in love? Is my friend deeply in love? Is there any chance in hell that man will ever choose my friend, even if I am not part of the equation? If it's less than love we are talking about, then hey, maybe a threesome is an alternative? I any case, I would talk about it with my friend. If she's really my friend, then we can sort it out. (Been there, done it, she's still my best friend and he's my ex.)
Quote:(Yes ladies we call dibs on you like meat, and no we don't care what you think about that.)(Yes, gentlemen, some of us do that, as well, we just use less words...)