10-19-2012, 12:14 PM
(10-19-2012, 11:39 AM)Teacher Wrote:(10-19-2012, 11:30 AM)sally Wrote: I don't really judge based on appearance alone. Unless of course the person has a huge mole on their face with a hair growing out of it or something, then I think why on earth wouldn't they get that thing cut off. Normally I wait for the person to start talking before I judge.
Maybe there's a reason the person can't get the mole removed. During my teen years I got a small mole on the side of my nose. Had it removed just to come right back. Dermatologist said if he removed that mole it would take half of my nose away. For some reason I opted to keep the mole! (There was a lady at school with a similar mole on her nose and had it removed - oh, my gosh. Ended up taking 3⁄4ths of her nose off - she looks so pitiful) BTW, at least I have never had a hair growing out of it and make-up covers it pretty well.
I should have considered that, but I think that's more of just wondering than actual judging. I wouldn't say it's the same as looking at an overweight person and thinking they must be a lazy slob.
I usually don't even pay attention to people, how they dress and if their kids look dirty is no business of mine. I don't always leave the house looking like a million bucks either. If they're out in public behaving like an idiot than that's different.