Do you ever blame the victim...

[sally]

I don't care if she's 16 or 40, the prom queen or a worn-out hooker. If someone makes him/herself an easier target by not being in full control of their faculties or choosing a higher risk lifestyle, it's not surprising to me when that someone is violated by a predator. But, it makes no difference at all as to whether I consider that person a victim and the violent criminally-minded asshole who chose to exploit and prey on another person's vulnerability fully to blame.

So in the end who even really gives a fuck? You feel worse for the person that was raped while sober than the person that was raped while drunk, but in the end a rapist is still a rapist.