Do you ever blame the victim...

[Duchess]

I said in another thread that once she says no & he takes it anyway, that's rape, however, I think there are times that people contribute to their own victimization through poor judgement, being impaired or general shit for brains, etc.

I don't like the word, victim, it's fine for others but I would never want it applied to me even if that's how it truly was. I find it demeaning in a sense.