01-17-2013, 02:02 PM
(01-16-2013, 04:46 AM)thekid65 Wrote: One of the things missing in the OP's list is what irritates me the most when it comes to drama. My ex-wife was horrible about taking a very small. usually easily to deal with problem, and blowing it was out of proportion to make it seem a lot worse. Always seemed to look on the negative side of things.
Pissed me off to no end, as it seems like she spent more time exacerbating the issue as opposed to dealing with it.
Of course, when I pointed this out, I was the insensitive prick.
I was in love with a negative type once too. He was cool and I liked his sardonic sense of humor a lot, really funny guy. He wasn't dramatic in the sense of making mountains out of molehills. But, he couldn't seem to help unburying old shit, big or small, and throwing it into the equation to make a point in a new conflict - every damn time. It was draining.
You probably are an insensitive prick though. I might be sometimes too; I always laughed when he'd drudge up the past. I was laughing alone most of the time.