02-21-2013, 04:09 PM
I've never heard of getting an un-invitation. Too funny. Does the un-invitation card still solicit gifts? If so, that's really weird and kinda arrogant.
I think asking for donations to the honeymoon is okay though, IF the person being solicited is invited to the wedding and the donation is in place of a traditional tangible gift.
I wouldn't want to be a wedding planner for anything. Too much drama. I've helped my sisters plan 6 weddings. Sometimes the social politics involved in determining the guest list, who was seated with whom, etc... was really funny (to me, not them).
I think asking for donations to the honeymoon is okay though, IF the person being solicited is invited to the wedding and the donation is in place of a traditional tangible gift.
I wouldn't want to be a wedding planner for anything. Too much drama. I've helped my sisters plan 6 weddings. Sometimes the social politics involved in determining the guest list, who was seated with whom, etc... was really funny (to me, not them).