02-21-2013, 06:08 PM
An uninvited card is rude and tacky as is asking for donations for the honeymoon. If you can't afford it, don't go. I also hate the notion of giving a gift that costs as much as your meal or the cash equivalent. What if I can't afford $200? If a person wants to have an expensive wedding, that's their choice. A guest should be able to give what they can afford and are comfortable with. Personally I think weddings are off the chain these days. People spend so much money on the wedding trying to keep up with the celebrities. Instead of having a $50k wedding, why not put that money down on a house?
Devil Money Stealing Aunt 