Are you a good parent?

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The way I see it is the love you feel for your own children is indescribable, and unless your parents were total dirt bags, they feel the same about you. So even though they're an old pain in the ass, you owe it to them to give that love back. You wouldn't put your kid in a nursing home, why would you do it to the person that loves you more than anything in the world.

Because it would feel weird to have to wipe and clean the crack of Dads ass?

Nurses will come in to do it. My grandma was fairly wealthy and her insurance still paid for a nurse to come in twice a day. When she got really sick hospice was there.

Yeah. My mom and her mom won't want for anything. My mom has already made all arrangements for my grandma and my mom could buy a small hospital and hire a private, live in nurse for the next fifty years if she wanted to. She'll do what she wants. Happy for her.