01-04-2009, 07:29 PM
AnonyMoose Wrote:that is so sad.ramseycat Wrote:It was a generic statement though Ramsey. The court doesn't always seem to care that a step-parent may have been every bit as important as a biological one. A close buddy of mine got divorced in New Zealand and never got to see his step-children again. I don't think the courts care one iota what that did to his heart.AnonyMoose Wrote:I didn't mean lose his son as in he would never see him. I meant lose him as in shared custody. And it's his son with his second wife. He has 2 with the first and 1 with the second.ramseycat Wrote:With my ex-FWB he doesn't want to loose his son. He wants to be able to be with him everyday. Plus, this is his second marriage and his first wife moved out of state with the kids and it kills him that he can't see them all the time. I guess people have their reasons for doing what they do.The rights that the court awards to step parents is laughable in most States.