12-02-2013, 03:27 PM
I have never had two women desire or enjoy the exact same things in the bedroom. Women are as different and mercurial as men are static and predictable. None of their psychic "oh hell YEAH" buttons are ever exactly the same which makes for a very interesting couple of months doing exploratory sex. I've had girls really into being "humiliated" and treated roughly who were perfectly normal in public, and girls who were all smoke and mirrors: wildcats at the club and dead fish in the sack. They're all different, and the trick is finding one whose needs and desires mesh with yours. I can't do the ST humiliation thing. Or most "gimmick" sex for that matter. It feels silly and contrived and mostly a put on by the people pretending to be into it. There are a lot of people getting their acting lessons from bad pornos, male and female. And when I find myself with a thespian in the bedroom I get irritated and work her into a frenzy until she forgets how to talk. Once when I was younger and meaner I got a woman in a quivering trembling mass and then just got up and left. Probably the nastiest thing I ever did in the bedroom.
Thank god I am oblivious to the opinions of others while caught in the blinding splendor of my own cleverness.