Sup fuckers?

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I'm stressing. I gave Matt a $5k advance on his 1^st installment. That money was supposed to last him a few months. I've been supporting him with my own money since Mike died. He owes me $8k out of his installment. Since he deposited the check Friday he has spent $3200 at bars and a Braves game. I'm so disgusted. My brother worked so hard to save and invest so the kids would have some security. Matt's going to be coming back to me for more money. He just doesn't get it that I have to settle the obligations of the estate before the obligations to the heirs. I have to walk away from this before it drives me crazy. I really can't deal. I'm glad Mike isn't here to see this.

Isn't there a way to give them all the money they're owed and be done with it?

Who cares at this point if they blow it all or not? Give them a big check, wash your hands of the whole mess and be a lot less stressed out.

I'm probably making it sound a lot easier than it is...I've never had to deal with something like you are, so I don't have a clue.