06-27-2014, 11:16 AM
(06-27-2014, 06:28 AM)Duchess Wrote: Would you agree that not being compatible sexually is a deal breaker?
Marriage is a deal breaker to sexual compatibility, for me.
Seriously, I guess it depends on what people want outta marriage or long-term partnership.
Sex is important to me in a relationship and I don't have any religious or moral objections to adult consensual sex under most any circumstance. If I was interested in marriage, I'd not wait til after the wedding to sleep with my husband.
But, I understood aussie's point a while back about staying married (or getting married) to someone when sexual compatibility is lacking (or unknown). Some people consider the companionship, emotional support, commitment and other non-sexual connections to be higher priority. (I have never been involved with a man who put any of those things above good/fun sex, though.)