06-27-2014, 11:50 AM
(06-27-2014, 11:26 AM)ramseycat Wrote: Bad sex = bad marriage.
So, then, do you think that good sex = good marriage?
It's possible to have incredibly good sex with someone, but zero compatibility and a real drag of a relationship outside of the bedroom.
And, I know a few very old and wise women who were happily married for ages to men to whom they weren't necessarily physically attracted, at least not initially. They wanted someone who would be a good father, a good provider, someone with whom they could grow old comfortably and peacefully...
I think it's very rare in life that any satisfying relationship or commitment (business, kids, friendships, lovers/spouses) can be maintained without trade-offs and compromises.