@USERNAME -- CATCH UP, FRENCH FRY!

[ramseycat]

Haha...so the trust is only lost if she finds out?

I'd say the trust was lost long ago, she just doesn't know about it. Yet..

Not necessarily. I will say this though, I'm pretty sure the wife already suspects something is up. There are signs. Whether or not she wants to "see" them is up to her. But on some level she knows.