09-16-2014, 10:52 PM
(09-16-2014, 09:33 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:(09-16-2014, 07:23 PM)HairOfTheDog Wrote:What if he/she said they were sorry and only lied because they thought you'd leave them if they told the truth? Wouldn't your leaving prove them right?(09-16-2014, 07:09 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:(09-16-2014, 06:26 PM)HairOfTheDog Wrote: It wouldn't bother you that your lover (trans-sexual or not) had blatantly lied to you and misrepresented herself in order to snag you in the first place, Clang?God is all about forgiveness, I think God would be ok with it.
It's not a post-op failure to disclose in the OP. It's a deceitful scam. I don't think God would like that one little bit.
You're assuming that your lying lover would be repentant.
I'm not so sure someone who feels entitled to scam and mislead another person like that would be truly remorseful simply because he/she got busted.
Aside from my family, love is conditional for me. Even if the woman pretending to be a man truly had gained my love and affection, I'd be out the door without hesitation or second thoughts.
I couldn't continue to love someone romantically who thought I was such a sucker and I'm not desperate. There are plenty of genuine honest people to love.
Anyway, I'd just move on. No hate. And, I could forgive if the person was truly sorry.
I wanted to ask that exact question Clang.But I left the forum and forgot about posting it.