Don't drink, don't smoke

[Duchess]

The young one is sleeping so no need to tell me to pay attention to her.

I wouldn't have done that anyway, you need your own interests that are separate from what you do as a wife & mother.

I don't think you would find the things I do to occupy myself appealing. I hike and read and ride. I like to swim and I walk around home improvement stores like they are the park.