05-11-2015, 10:36 PM
Uh huh, aussie. I'm an exaggerator.
You're either lying, have a very poor memory, or in denial. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume it's one of the latter two.
It only takes a couple of minutes to read what you wrote or repost it, aussie. I'll even help you. Here you go.
And, she's off........
aussie on the defensive -- in response to a polite question and alternate viewpoint...
aussie the dramatic psychic...
aussie the badass...
You posted ^ those exaggerated, dramatic, over-reactions to Donovan's original post and to my opinion, which happens to differ from yours. (I posted the last quote because you've proven that one is true, sadly.)
My opinion hasn't changed. I don't believe that anyone who leaves a spouse (and teenager) during a heated conflict must be a psycho. He or she might be, but I don't believe that's a given.
I think sometimes it's crazier not to create distance and not to make time to calm down. I don't know the details on this one. So, unlike you, I'm not sucking up to anyone or degrading anyone in the process of assuming that I do. Why you let that bother you so deeply is your problem. This isn't a contest. Just a discussion.
You're either lying, have a very poor memory, or in denial. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume it's one of the latter two.
It only takes a couple of minutes to read what you wrote or repost it, aussie. I'll even help you. Here you go.
And, she's off........
(05-09-2015, 05:00 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: Donovan, you got a lucky escape, what if she was a psycho bitch that was a stalker or something, at the very least she is weird and abusive.
aussie on the defensive -- in response to a polite question and alternate viewpoint...
(05-09-2015, 03:19 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: You would think that someone who was the forum moderator would show a little more insight and intelligence into dysfunctional behaviour rather than blindly mouthing off about psychotic rants as being acceptable in a relationship.
aussie the dramatic psychic...
(05-10-2015, 09:34 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: The only thing that I am mad with Donovan about is that he took her back. She cried and manipulated him and he fell for it. Hearing the story I could see what a manipulative mad cow she was and it's like "oh God here come the waterworks". My sister took her ex back after he pulled a knife on her! I was hysterical, literally. I broke down at work and had to go home, it was embarrassing. Giving a psycho a second chance when you have had a lucky escape could cost you your life.
aussie the badass...
(05-11-2015, 12:43 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: ...you get one chance, and you are lucky to have that. Having that attitude and mindset gives you a personal power. Mine is, don't even THINK of disagreeing with me, let alone speak it and pulling any stunt will see you out the door so fast it will make your head spin.
You posted ^ those exaggerated, dramatic, over-reactions to Donovan's original post and to my opinion, which happens to differ from yours. (I posted the last quote because you've proven that one is true, sadly.)
My opinion hasn't changed. I don't believe that anyone who leaves a spouse (and teenager) during a heated conflict must be a psycho. He or she might be, but I don't believe that's a given.
I think sometimes it's crazier not to create distance and not to make time to calm down. I don't know the details on this one. So, unlike you, I'm not sucking up to anyone or degrading anyone in the process of assuming that I do. Why you let that bother you so deeply is your problem. This isn't a contest. Just a discussion.