Fucked up Funeral

[SyberBitch]

Update - At the funeral, my mom was told that her dad 'didn't leave a will'.

The house was mutually owned by my grandmother (who has Alzheimers) and my grandfather. 'Tenancy in common', meaning when one of them dies, the entire interest of the house goes to the surviving spouse (that being my grandmother). My mom has legal 'power of atty' over my grandmother and my grandmother has been living with my mom the last several years, my mom as her caretaker.

Friday evening, my aunt showed up at my mom's house, to take grandmother to 'spend the night' with her. The next day, Aunt J was supposed to have brought Grandmother back, but did not. Mom could not reach her by phone. Sunday, Mom was called and 'informed' that Aunt J did not intend to bring Grandmother back. My mom was then told that Grandpa DID leave a will, but had specifically stated he did not want my mother getting 'anything' and that the house was to be left to my uncle, 'on the condition' that my grandmother was taken away from my mom and put back in their jointly owned house.

So, my mom went to the police and such, found out that she couldn't really do anything about the 'kidnapping' until Monday because she would have to go to the Magistrate's office and get a court order. I took enough medicine to last Grandmother a couple of days to the old house, so she wouldn't be without. While there, Aunt J stated that she had 'bought the house' from my Uncle, because he was the 'executor' of the estate.... dumbasses. Can they seriously be that stupid and ignorant of probate law??

I'm going to have a busy day tomorrow. =p

Update #2 - Retribution

Today, my aunt took my grandmother to the doctor, to try and get all of grandmother's prescriptions transferred to her (my aunt). My aunt, and her various pedophiliac sex-offender mongoloid mates over the years (she's been married like 10 times, no lie) are substance abusers by the way... Anyway, the doctor told her that since the meds had already been refilled this month, she would have to go get the meds from my mom. After speaking to a social worker all morning, we were told that if until grandmother is proven 'incompetent' by court hearing, she can pretty much SAY who she wants to stay with and that if she's staying with my aunt, my mom is 'required' to give her the medications she needs, so she won't go without. I more or less knew that anyway, but was hoping there was a way to get around it and 'force' my aunt to give my grandmother back.

So, after talking to the doctor and being unable to get grandmother's prescriptions from him, my aunt came to my mom's house to get them. I happened to be there with my handy-dandy digital voice recorder. My grandmother was in the car. I clued my mom in as to what she needed to do before my aunt arrived...

Aunt J comes to the door. My mom says "I want to see Mom". Aunt J can't really refuse her, so we both go out to the car. I hug Grandmother and say "Do you want to come inside and see your dog?" She says she does. We help her out of the car and into the house... cha-ching!!! After mom and grandmother cross the threshold, I turn to face my aunt, who is trying to move past me, and say to her "That's far enough".

::bigg::

Aunt J: "What?? I can't come in??"

Me: "I don't think so"

Aunt J: "Well I never!! I'm taking Mom with me!"

Me: "No, you're not"

Aunt J: "See this paper! *I* have POWER OF ATTORNEY"

Me: (laughing) "No, you don't. That paper is worthless.

Aunt J: "We're going to get the Sheriff!!"

Me: "Yeah, whatever. Good luck with that"
(having already been through the process of trying to get grandmother back from Aunt J ourselves)

Aunt J: "I'll be back!!!"

Me: "What, you're the Terminator now? Your impression is terrible".

(exit Aunt J, huffing and fire shooting out of her eyes as she stomps off the porch, slamming the door)

::lmao::

And tomorrow.... we throw them out of Grandmother's house.

By the way, I asked Grandmother, on tape, if she wanted to stay with mom. She said she did, so our asses are covered. hah!