Hello I am Zero's Brother

[Ski at 1SKY6]

So what do you do when you meet a guy and really like him, but find out he is a top also? Is there any kind of compromise or do you just call it quits?

This question is for Ski, not you Aussie.

I can only speak for myself and I have learned that I differ from most. I loose the chance for sex because most guys I meet think I must not like them since we are not in bed the same night. I enjoy doing other things together for weeks and when I really feel something for them it happens. At that point the intensity is wonderful and if my partner has that same intensity (they always do) there is a synergy and its kinda magical. I know it may sound corny but I have tried to have sex too soon and I am so uncomfortable I don't get aroused. The guy who ended up being second lover was so into trying to get me to go home to his place, every time I was out he would hit on me. I said what are you doing Monday, two weeks from now?. I will meet you here, Monday two weeks from now. I figured I would be there and when he didn't show I could say, I was there and you were a no show and that would end it. Needless to say he showed up and we began dating. 14 years later he left never to be seen again until 19 years after his departure he came up behind me and started say, you're hot what's your name? I turned around and here he's trying to pick me up, not knowing it's me.