09-27-2016, 09:43 PM
(09-27-2016, 08:10 PM)aussiefriend Wrote:(09-27-2016, 06:15 PM)Duchess Wrote:(09-27-2016, 06:12 PM)Clang McFly Wrote: I've given up on love. I will die alone. Friend Zone Forever. My dating life/experience is almost zero, except for 2 dates with a psycho and 3 months over 20 years ago. I'm 43, a virgin, overweight, not good looking, crossdress and live with my Dad. What girl/woman could seriously love me?
You're falling into that trap again. Knock it off.
Yeh Duch is right, you can make it happen for you of course you can. You make the decision, this is what I want, it starts right now, and you work out how you want your life to look life and you point yourself in that direction whether you realize it or not you will get there. You have to be more positive and more proactive. Love starts with loving yourself, really being kind to yourself and then others around you everywhere.
It's not just positive thinking, it's about redirecting your life and achieving stuff. It's your decision how your life looks. Work through it and climb the mountain like all of us and get there. It's achievable. I know you can be a bit sleazy at times, but maybe there is someone out there for you that likes that shit. I know it creeps me out, but there are women who are the same as you, if that's what you want.
You have to work on yourself to get there.
I AM working on myself but at the rate its going I'll be dead before I find love. Part of the problem I think is I'm too nice and got my self saddled with taking care of Dad and one of my younger brothers. My oldest brother said I could live by myself if I wanted but I said no out of some stupid sense of loyalty to family. Maybe someday I'll get to decide what I want in a family free, judgement free zone.