10-01-2016, 06:42 PM
(09-30-2016, 09:20 PM)sally Wrote: He's not nice Aussie, he's a fat prick. That's why he doesn't have a girlfriend.
Sal, Mag, he is clearly operating from a deficit. He is in a disadvantageous place at the moment, but he can turn that around to his advantage. He is entitled to love and happiness just like anyone else.
He may have gotten himself into a rut. I am helping him, if he shoots down everything I say and is resistant to change, than he is clearly more happy in that space than moving forward in his life. Choices. Anyone can change at any age. It starts with a will of wanting to change, then thoughts, and then actions. It's small steps.