10-04-2016, 01:56 AM
(10-02-2016, 06:12 PM)Clang McFly Wrote:(09-30-2016, 09:20 PM)sally Wrote: He's not nice Aussie, he's a fat prick. That's why he doesn't have a girlfriend.
I don't have a girlfriend because I'm not good at starting and/or continuing conversations. I usually get as far as Hi, how are you or good morning and then I don't usually continue the conversation and share with my friends, family and co-workers what is going on in my life unless directly asked something like "How is your weekend?"
My weight and asshole-ness have nothing to do with it.
I don't think you're a fat prick Clang. If you DO want a girlfriend you have to keep putting yourself out there, keep trying until you make a connection.
AND you really really really have to like who you are as a human being, you have to love yourself and protect your heart. You have to be a great interesting person who loves who you are. Then you will attract others to yourself.
I connect with people all the time, always smile and ask how they are and am genuinely interested in them, and people open up to me.
I relate to you Clang, because I think there is a bit of Clang in all of us. It's just that the negative Clang in you seems dominant at this moment in time. I have been there, and when you feel poor about yourself, it seems every asshole in the world comes along to validate you. So change your perspective, that's where you start.