Your Valentine's Day

[ramseycat]

Been married twice is the key right there. Did you not learn from the first failed marriage?

I worked and spent the rest of the day with my kids. Oh and BF stopped by work for lunch. That was the best lunch I have ever had. The sandwich he brought me was pretty good too.

Oh good lord, now I'm getting marriage advice from Ramsey? ::lmao::

No where in my post did I give you any advice. I merely asked if you didn't learn anything from the first failed marriage.

Let me explain something to you that you might not comprehend. I was married to two different men. Different situations both times. So what I learned from the first failed marriage had no bearing on the second. That's why I'm not currently married, I'm obviously not suited to married life and I'm honest enough to accept that at the risk of idiots in forums calling me a spinster, a lesbian and/or a maniac. And you certainly have no place in questioning anything about my personal life considering the winner you were married to and remained married to even when the situation got ugly. So kindly shut your gaping piehole, you stupid cunt.

It would seem I touched a nerve. You always take everything as an insult. And I have never called you a spinster. I often wonder why people get married and divorced multiple times. Mostly because it is sad. No one stays married anymore.

Yes, I did stay with my husband probably longer than I should have. I would have left him four years earlier but I found out I was pregnant with my second child. I did whatever I had to for my children. And it wasn't like he beat me everyday. I am not making excuses for him. That last six months we were together is when he really got out of control. I left. It's sad that things had to end that way. I am sad for my kids.