How can anyone do it alone?

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If people are feeling isolated then maybe they aren't making an active effort to be engaged in what's going on around them. That's just a thought and I don't say it rudely. I've always believed it's up to one's self to make their own happiness, it should never be left up to others to do for them.

True and one HUGE fact that I left out is neither woman drives. Duh, now that would cause one to be isolated.

Then again, if I were single I don't know what activities I could/would engage in that would prevent boredom (once I had my new place just perfect). Ballroom dancing? No. Book Club? No unless the club is book club comedy or something. Bars? No fucking way. I'm not a club joiner and I don't have any one passion (like riding or something) that would be enjoyable. Just to get out, I suppose I could attend the local National Association of Mental Illness (NAMI) family support meetings but that doesn't sound too fun. Hmmmmm.