Infidelity

[Liquid]

[color="yellow"]PART 1[/color]
[user=47]Liquid[/user] wrote:

1) if she fucked around on me and did not tell me, I would never know and not think anything was wrong.

You actually believe that, don't you?

[color="yellow"]PART 2[/color]
[user=47]Liquid[/user] wrote:

2) if she fucked around on me and told me we would be done. no questions asked and no make ups. fuck you, get out, good bye
3) if she fucked around on me and I was told about it from someone else and it was confirmed as true, then we would be done, no questions asked and no make ups, fuck you, get out, good bye.

That's it, no questions, no geting to what brought it on, just be done with her and that's game over? No need to see what you may have done to drive her away; why she did it? There is always a 2^nd story to people who fuck around, ya know. ::wait::

RESPONSE TO PART 1 ABOVE -
Well of course i believe that. If I never knew about the cheating, I would not know about it, lol. If she did not tell me, and no one else told me, and nothing changed and there was no reason to think she had cheated, then nothing would be different...obviously

RESPONSE TO PART 2 ABOVE -
Well now you are changing the question. This was never about WHAT may have caused the cheating. This was just about someone cheating on someone else. So going back to your original question and assuming there was nothing unusual with our relationship and things were good like they are now, and then out of the blue she cheated, then yes - she is out and good bye. You never ever ever regain 100% trust once it has been broken.