Infidelity

[ramseycat]

But I agree with Duchess that an affair is a whole different thing from a one night stand.

See, that's where I change tactics; if they fucked around once, they will fuck around again, it doesn't matter if it was a meaningful thing or a one-night bullshit stand; there is a reason they went in search somewhere else whether it was once or 100 times and I want to know what the fuck it was! ::wait::

I agee to a point. But there are people that make a mistake one time and that is it. I know a guy that continuously cheats on his wife and I am not sure why really. Maybe he just like variety. I know another guy that would cheat on his wife given the chance but he gets no sex at home. There are many reasons why people do the things they do. I don't think that we can boil it down to 3 or 4 reasons why someone cheats.

If my husband or BF got hammered one night and cheated, I could live with that a lot easier than an affair. If he cheated for a length of time and had a full relationsip with another woman, that would tear me apart. I think I would also rather he did have a one night stand than an emotional affair with another women but didn't have sex. Sex for men can be such a basic thing. They fuck someone just for the physical pleasure but it has nothing to do with how they feel about them or their wife.