12-31-2017, 03:18 AM
Yeah, my Mom and my oldest brother used to always tell what I should do and so for many years I became an indecisive people pleaser. Its ironic that now my older brother is saying I need to be more aggressive, decisive and independent and my Dad is now asking me all the time "What should we do?" and I'm like "I don't know, I was never allowed to make my own decisions before without guilt and shame if my decision ended in failure or guilt for making my own decision."
Its gotten better in my social life and work life though as people ask me for advice on what they should do about a title application and I've gotten more confident in my answers.
Its gotten better in my social life and work life though as people ask me for advice on what they should do about a title application and I've gotten more confident in my answers.