A question about people and relationships.

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but do people just change for someone and why? Am I supposed to find someone and change them?!

No, you don't make a conscious effort to change yourself or others. People have to be happy in their own skin in order to live their best life. I have zero interest in changing anyone and I would be put off if someone were to try and change me. I'm a horribly flawed individual, I have faults and even with all that I would rather be alone than to change or have someone try to change me. I am comfortable with saying take me as I am or don't take me at all.