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[Fry Guy]

Clang as a completely impartial observer, i think if you want to make a connection with a lady that is completely on you.
You are a big bloke, a bit of a kook and not a good looking bloke but that describes quite a percentage of guys around your age.
I think that despite your underconfidence and general weirdness, you are not malicious and are harmless. You are amusing too. I think you probably have more to offer than you think.

I reckon you should make some close platonic female friends. Girls who don't want to fuck you and you don't want to fuck. After this, start doing blind dates with no view to anything but learn how to date and be in a romantic type setting. Don't even worry if you fuck up a few of them. It is a blind date and you were not supposed to find the one.
Eventually your confidence will grow and you'll relate better and find someone that digs you and that you want to see again.
Fuck man stranger things have happened. You aren't bad people and i think as long as you don't lead with "Nice dress, i would not mind wearing it" there is a bit to gain out of this