Watching someone die a horrible death

[Sinister]

I did promise him I would go to his funeral but if his kids are there I don't think I will be able to control myself and I don't want to spoil his send off.

Well then I hope you don't go if you can't control yourself from acting like a dramamama soup chicken and disrespecting the man at his funeral.

"The man" - being dead - won't know what the fuck is going on and those shitty kids of his could use a slap of reality; someone telling them what little assholes they are for dumping their father.

OP, I still say, if you can do it without causing a scene, DO IT. After you've played nice at the service. Shitheads like that need to be told they are shitheads.