04-11-2009, 02:01 AM
Yup same.
I am willing to give my morals, values, correct theoretical information and options. What I will not do is take control of their sexuality or play a larger part in their sexuality.
I know my little daughter will be a sexual being one day. With sexual needs and as a Dad I will do my best to not let this be any more confusing, scary, anxiety-ridden or dangerous for her. I will not give her a vibrator any more than I would say "Timmy next door is a nice boy how about you go to your bedroom and I will send him over". Both would make me feel very uncomfortable and would be me interfering in her sex life which ultimately is her responsibility and her right to determine.
Having said that though if she did have a boyfriend and was not brave enough to purchase condoms but brave enough to ask me, then I probably would purchase them for her. I would rather my daughter was sexually safe.
I am willing to give my morals, values, correct theoretical information and options. What I will not do is take control of their sexuality or play a larger part in their sexuality.
I know my little daughter will be a sexual being one day. With sexual needs and as a Dad I will do my best to not let this be any more confusing, scary, anxiety-ridden or dangerous for her. I will not give her a vibrator any more than I would say "Timmy next door is a nice boy how about you go to your bedroom and I will send him over". Both would make me feel very uncomfortable and would be me interfering in her sex life which ultimately is her responsibility and her right to determine.
Having said that though if she did have a boyfriend and was not brave enough to purchase condoms but brave enough to ask me, then I probably would purchase them for her. I would rather my daughter was sexually safe.