04-22-2009, 07:23 PM
FAHQTOO Wrote:OK. I'll give my opinion on this whether you want it or not. I'll be 44 in June, and my son will be 22 in June. I think a 20 year age difference is huge, but I'm kinda old fashioned that way. I don't think I could go more than 10 years younger.
You were his age when he was born. I don't think I could get past that myself, but it might be because my kids are so much older than yours. My son would have a fit if he found out I was fucking someone so close to his age.
I went from dating someone 8 yrs younger than me to someone 8 years older than me and I didn't like either of the age differences. 20 years seems like a lot to me even in this day and age. But, to each their own, I guess. I wouldn't be comfortable with it.
On a side note though. I have had a few of the younger guys at work come on to me, they are both 22. One of them I would have to think twice (or more) about hooking up. OMG....he is THAT fucking HOT!!!
My boys are 9 and 12. They know I have a friend from work and we talk on the phne sometimes or text. We mght get something to eat after work one night. I have a lot of male friends that are just friends. Why would the kids think BF is any different? And really, the only reason I don't introduce him to my kids as my boyfriend and have him over all the time is because deep down I know this isn't going to last. Why would I do that to my kids? Get them attached to a guy when I know he could be gone at any time? His age has nothing to do with that. If he were 40 and I knew it was never going to last, I wouldn't bring him into my family. MF, I fail to see how this is wrong. You are just so wrapped up in the fact that he is younger than I am.
And yes F, if my kids were his age it would be weird. But they are not. Plus, I have a young outlook on life. People I work with thought I was in my early 30's when I started there. I guess I look young. Really, I am just a big goofball. LOL
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