05-30-2009, 08:47 AM
Ordinary Peephole Wrote:sally Wrote:What the helldid you guys do to her? ::laugh::I have no idea, any PM communication we have had has always been friendly, I would still PM her but now I would feel very uncomfortable doing so. Maybe she associates us all with a bad time in her lifethat she wants to forget?
What are you her shrink now?
Here's what happened - Bullet came home and to her disappointment he didn't live up to the big bad ass who was going to teach us all a lesson that she expected.
In fact, he came in, got a little mocking for his 'shaving' routine and went batshit.
When she found out that Bullet was not going to be pulled into the fray, she went more batshit due to embarassment.
Shes sober now, probably taking her meds regularly and has a calmer demeanor because her man is home and he's the one who probably gave her shit for putting HIS personal life out there for all to see. I told her time and again via IM that she should just not talk about it when others bring it up but she felt the need to 'educate' time and again. All that did was make it worse for her and him.
Remember the post where he asked how everyone got his case file? Yeah, I'm sure that hit a sore spot on the homefront for them. I can't blame him if he got pissed about that because I know I would have.
He posted like a reasonable person, the posts are there to prove it.
She on the other hand misread, misunderstood and misjudged words and people and tucked tail and left.
She burned bridges and can't figure how to make amends. Frankly I don't expect nor want her to because she treated people who were good to her and said nothing mocking her or Bullet like shit as well.Leave her be.
Staying awaymakes her new angelic personality easier to wear.
But now she does like OP in a way - where he mocks those on 24 from afar, she does the same about us.