Hey Chang.

[Piglet]

I had a friend promise to help get me laid in Atlantic City. 5 years later nothing but broken promises.

You need to start to reinvent yourself.  New clothes, i dont know whats good over there, but you cant buy cheap.   Leather and sports jackets were good in my time.  I have two leather jackets now, it smacks of masculinity and wealth.  Widen your social circle,  join clubs, go to night clubs on your own.   I used to go to night clubs with mates, but getting lucky means you leave without them anyway.

When in i lived in Birmingham there was  a ballroom with live music, stuffed with totty, i hope you dont mind me using english terms, on my own, good music if nothing else.  Most blokes are too timid, have the mindset of a predator, ask and it will be given.   Its all a numbers game, someone will say yes.    Ask enough, and the love of your life will come along.  Its like blanket bombing.   Funny how the minute you get in a club success is immediate, then it tales off.

You cant do what i did.  Chat someone up, at 10.pm, then do it again at 1-00pm, and forget you did it at 10-00.

Now is all that matters, think positively, its your currency of now, thinking creates feeling, think well and all will be delivered, you create your own reality.  Think negative, and that will deliver also.

Get it right,  get a good vibe from yourself, and women will come to you.    Lavender after shave is good.