New Chang.

[Clang McFly]

I need to do something.  In my defence Clang did present the problem of wanting a girlfriend, hence advice, not given otherwise.    Someone once said that  to keep doing the same thing expecting a different result is a form of madness.

What this means is that Clang needs to change, what hes doing now isnt working.  It is crazy to want a girlfriend and then not, at least, start working towards it.

Has Clang done that?, no.  Getting out of your comfort zone is needed.  Is Clang going to get a girlfriend doing the same thing over and over.?  No.  Getting out of your comfort zone ia always required, if you dont, you become an old shoe at the bottom of a river.

I am completely happy with who i am, everyone who has contact with me benefits, strangely, like here, i dont.

If his discomfort at not having a girl was bad, he would have done something about it. a long time ago.  Hes old now, an old dog.  Indeed Mirah, acceptance on Clangs part is needed, that he will NEVER get a girl.

If i have a problem, i solve it, not wallow in helplessness., which is the worst of all worlds.    All i want is for Clang to be happy.  End of.

Am i paradoxing Clang?, you decide.    And as for myself, stepping away from a fools errand is required.  Lavender is a wonderful scent Tiki, suitable for both sexes.  I regard all your posts with sceticism, worthy of your title, sincerity faker.      Everything you post is potentially fake.

I dont know which is which.  Like this.  Male or female?, whatever you reply, it will be fake.  Mister.

I've been outside my comfort zone for many years now. I sometimes wonder though if not happier, I would have been better off continuing my hermit lifestyle.

I want a girlfriend but I still want to enjoy a modicum of independence. I want a date night in and/or with my girlfriend and a night out with the boys. I want it all. Am I asking too much?