12-23-2009, 07:44 PM
(12-23-2009, 07:14 PM)Julie Wrote: but I don't like the fact that you used info we discussed via PM as ammo for a public argument. I totally understand your POV on this, but seriously...It really makes me hesitant to correspond with you in PM now :(
Is this comon practice here? Am I making a newb error?
Just let me know...
No - it's not normal here because most normal people know that PMs are meant to be private. Lumpy has a bad habit of being a disrespectful game-playing bitch, which has probably played a role in her unsuccessful relationships with men. I have experienced the "PM privacy betrayal" you are indicating. Many have been "betrayed" by that bitch. She makes light of it, and will make excuses as to why it is OK, but normal people know it is a dick move.
You are not making an error due to being a newbie. You only made an "error" by trusting some online bitch.
My policy is to keep PMs private, I wouldn't do that. The Federal Lump Victim, aka Forum Drama-Stirring Loser Bitch, simply has a destructive side that you are now starting to be a victim of. She plays victim, but she actually does the victimizing.
Don't PM her anything you want truly private. She is a dick.
