12-28-2009, 10:19 PM
(12-28-2009, 10:02 PM)SyberBitch Wrote:(12-28-2009, 01:43 AM)Julie Wrote: I am astounded that you would have the nerve to tell folks how they should react to racial slurs. Seems very arrogant to me.
Teaching your kid not to partake in using racial slurs - a good move.
It IS arrogant, but it's also right.
The INTENT of racial slurs is evil - to try and degrade a person for their heritage. However, a person allowing his/herself to be negatively affected by a racial slur, simply demonstrates that 'self hate' you were talking about earlier.
The black community will never 'own' the 'n-word', the way people are going about it now. The best way to 'destroy' the 'n-word', or any racial slur, would be to simply embrace it and not give a flying fuck WHO said it, black white or purple. Totally strip the word of its power. If no one CARED whether or not you called them by a racial slur, that slur would no longer be used because it would no longer be hurtful.
You've been waiting a very long time to say this to a Black person haven't you?
I won't interrupt you. Do continue.
I am on the edge of my seat just waiting to hear what else you are arrogant but right about and to see if there's anything else you are certain of when it comes to "the Black Community". In fact, I'm going to print out what you type here and share it at the very next "Black Community" meeting.
I will not be participating at this forum.
This is a toxic place. Goodbye.
This is a toxic place. Goodbye.