04-01-2025, 03:35 PM
I think my parents put me as co-trustee with my brother for just this reason. My sister is a little too desperate (and unstable is putting it gently) and my brother has always been a tight fisted borderline asshole.
The very BEST thing I can do to honor my mom is to first make sure her wishes are followed and ideally without major drama and ruined relationships.
The law is the law and we WILL follow the instructions in her trust to a gawt damn T.
I’ll knock some heads around as needed. My brother has already been hand slapped about his stupid idea that he could maintain control over some of the money that will go to my sister. I put an abrupt stop to that nonsense.
ETA: Thankfully his musings never made it to her ears. She would have flipped her little lid, lol.
The very BEST thing I can do to honor my mom is to first make sure her wishes are followed and ideally without major drama and ruined relationships.
The law is the law and we WILL follow the instructions in her trust to a gawt damn T.
I’ll knock some heads around as needed. My brother has already been hand slapped about his stupid idea that he could maintain control over some of the money that will go to my sister. I put an abrupt stop to that nonsense.
ETA: Thankfully his musings never made it to her ears. She would have flipped her little lid, lol.
Commando Cunt Queen