01-20-2023, 05:20 PM
Thanks for your thoughts - some really great perspectives.
Both are good guys, but definitely more skeptical of the ex - even though I think he thinks he has pure intentions. And means what he says. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment for sure - and we def can talk about deep shit together. But I don’t want long distance relationship either. So I think of it as temp only even if I shouldn’t.
Coach does need to pick up the pace a bit. But I’m still interested in finding out more there.
In the meantime, I’m going to just stay put in my own house ( not temp move in with ex) and until I’m forced to make a choice or commitment- I’ll see what unfolds while also focusing on my work and art and fam and friends.
Both are good guys, but definitely more skeptical of the ex - even though I think he thinks he has pure intentions. And means what he says. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment for sure - and we def can talk about deep shit together. But I don’t want long distance relationship either. So I think of it as temp only even if I shouldn’t.
Coach does need to pick up the pace a bit. But I’m still interested in finding out more there.
In the meantime, I’m going to just stay put in my own house ( not temp move in with ex) and until I’m forced to make a choice or commitment- I’ll see what unfolds while also focusing on my work and art and fam and friends.