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[user=20]The Antagonist[/user] wrote:
Quote:OnBendedKnee Wrote:I love a healthy debate.
Arguing though takes too much effort and requires a level of caring I don't have.
I've learned too that if I listen more than speak I pick up on an opinion that at times has changed mine.
Yah but I'm talking about a good ol' argument where it gets heated a bit.
I have a friend since, well make that two friends since my single digit age and both of them I've had some out and out battles with and we're still friends to this day. We know each other so well that we don't let much get in our way.
I think also that because we actually KNOW how to argue instead of throwing everything in plus the kitchen sink and staying on topic, it helps.
I've also been on the other side of it many times where those who I thought had a reasonable mind were too emotionally retarded to even have a rational discussion.
OK, I better get what you're expressing.
There's a guy at work who loves to debate religion.
He knows I used to be a Mormon and am now an atheist.
He's still an active Mormon.
At first our discussions would turn slightly heated but we both figured out that was going to get us nowhere and it was either learn to not argue our points or simply walk away and not talk about the subject at all.
Now it just never gets to the point of getting heated and I've picked up a couple of ideas from him. Perhaps he has too. Either way, we enjoy the differences of opinion and don't let those exact differences distract us.
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The Antagonist Wrote:Can you have an argument or disagreement with a friend, no matter how close or not, and be able to turn it off and remain friends once the argument is over. Yes !...While this doesn't happen to me daily, it certainly does weekly & it never fails to be something that is political...I'm the lone borderline liberal in a sea of right wing conservatives...All they have to do is mention George Bush or anyone in that administration and it sets me off like a rocket...If I hear one single accolade directed towards those fuckin' people I want to rip their arms off & beat them about their head and body with it..............And then I'm over it
LuMPyPussy Wrote:Boytoy + sex = orgasm How the fuck would you know? If it wasn't for your vibrator and elephant-sized dildo, you'd have healed up and haired over by now.
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Yes. I have a few friends who don't think like me. We have it out... usually when we are ALL together. Its all good in the end.
Sinister Wrote:LuMPyPussy Wrote:Boytoy + sex = orgasm How the fuck would you know? If it wasn't for your vibrator and elephant-sized dildo, you'd have healed up and haired over by now. Do you disagree? 
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Sinister Wrote:LuMPyPussy Wrote:Boytoy + sex = orgasm How the fuck would you know? If it wasn't for your vibrator and elephant-sized dildo, you'd have healed up and haired over by now. ::lmao::
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You should vote for her post, she voted for one of your shitty ones. :kiss::
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LuMPyPussy Wrote:You should vote for her post, she voted for one of your shitty ones. :kiss:: Shit, I always forget to vote. Even you got to admit it was funny.
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I can and have had plenty of heated out and out fights with friends and then brushed it off like nothing happened.
It's sort of healthy. What I won't continue a friendship over is bullshit like someone saying they're mad at me but won't say anything other than "you know what you did" as if by magic I'm going to make things right or know what offended them.
My ex wife used to do that shit all the time. The worst with her was when she would finally come around and then tell me what offense I made only to find out she either misheard me or got it from heresay. That there is a clear case of juvenile emotions.
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One thing that pisses me off to no end is when you have a group of friends, and say, 2 of them have gotten into an argument, and the friendship is pretty much over. Then your caught ( for lak of a better word) talking to one of them, and then the other one will be pissed off at you for no other reason than you're talking to someone they now hate.
Fuck that shit. If I wasn't personally involved, leave me the fuck out of it and never tell me who I can or can't be friends with. More than likely, it will end more friend ships in the long run.
That's when I usually say fuck you to all of them and be done with it. I've only had to deal with this once in my life and have made sure to not get into those kind of clicks again. Who needs the fucking stress?
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FAHQTOO Wrote:Who needs the fucking stress?
Exactly. I always hated it when people would try to get me involved in their personal dramas.
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Middle Finger Wrote:FAHQTOO Wrote:Who needs the fucking stress?
Exactly. I always hated it when people would try to get me involved in their personal dramas. Stop taking his side!!!
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LuMPyPussy Wrote:Sinister Wrote:LuMPyPussy Wrote:Boytoy + sex = orgasm How the fuck would you know? If it wasn't for your vibrator and elephant-sized dildo, you'd have healed up and haired over by now. Do you disagree? Do I disagree that you've been fucked by nothing but your own hands and sex toysin the past 180 years? That's pretty much what I said, isn't it, dumbass? Or do I need to use smaller words for your addled, alleged brain to grasp my meaning?
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[user=7]Sinister[/user] wrote:
Quote:LuMPyPussy Wrote:Sinister Wrote:LuMPyPussy Wrote:Boytoy + sex = orgasm
How the fuck would you know? If it wasn't for your vibrator and elephant-sized dildo, you'd have healed up and haired over by now. Do you disagree? Do I disagree that you've been fucked by nothing but your own hands and sex toys in the past 180 years? That's pretty much what I said, isn't it, dumbass? Or do I need to use smaller words for your addled, alleged brain to grasp my meaning?
Yup...I think you need to go ahead and explain that again....
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Can I have an argument with myself?
Damn right I can.
Bullshit, you asshat...get a fuckin' grip.
What the fuck do you know about it?
Go fuck yourself.
Only if you promise to join in.....
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Dumbass has proven today that he can't have an argument or discussion without beinga total ignorant name calling prick.
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I don't have any friends to argue with. I fight with the boyfriend a lot, but I can't stay mad @ anyone I love for more than a few minutes. I am just happy go lucky like that.
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Son of a bitch. You type @ to save one letter?
fucking cunt bitch Wrote:I don't have any friends to argue with. I fight with the boyfriend a lot, but I can't stay mad @ anyone I love for more than a few minutes. I am just happy go lucky like that. Blame it on the frontal lobotomy ::bigg::
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