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Ramsey, you might need some grief counselling. You sound like you have gone through too much for one person in the short space of time. You might be taking it all on the chin and not realising you are overloaded. Even if you go and see your doctor and start with some antidepressants, you may even be depressed and not even realise it. They are all highly stressful events and you may not be able to take on a new job right now.
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(02-13-2014, 04:14 PM)Cynical Ninja Wrote: Yes I often contemplate my “perfect” life lately, the “perfection” of my dad dying, the “perfection” of my last remaining grand parent dying. Life really doesn't get anymore perfect than that does it catflap?
Do you need a sarcasm sign? Obviously I don't think you have a perfect life. I would have thought that you would be more understanding of the taking it each day at a time seeing as how you have experienced loss recently as well.
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(02-13-2014, 06:01 PM)aussiefriend Wrote: Ramsey, you might need some grief counselling. You sound like you have gone through too much for one person in the short space of time. You might be taking it all on the chin and not realising you are overloaded. Even if you go and see your doctor and start with some antidepressants, you may even be depressed and not even realise it. They are all highly stressful events and you may not be able to take on a new job right now.
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Rams, good to hear you're hanging in there and doing what you have to do to just keep moving forward.
You really have had a hell of a year or more; so much loss and change.
On the lighter side - I swear, the content, clarity, and directness of your posts when you're either on pain killers or have the world on your shoulders kinda blows me away. Makes me think you're a strong person who manages to excel under pressure. A very good thing.
(I do miss the goofy posts a little, though).
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Thank you HOTD. I'll try to get back to my regularly scheduled posting ASAP.
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^ sorry Ramsey, was my post offensive? I just think that when you put it all out there and explained it like that, it sounds like alot of heartache.
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No it was not offensive. I took it as you meant it. That is a lot of heartache. But I'll get through it.
BTW, a lot is two words.
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I know it is, LC has corrected me on this before, but I want to sound the way I speak and when I say that it sounds like alot not "a"-lot.
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I kinda feel like I just stepped into a room full of bubbles.
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........not the small ones but the ones about 3" wide. The kind that you can almost hear when they "pop" and spit at you when you invade their space. Not that 7⁄11 or Ramseykittens would do that...no no but they might oops............forget how much soap they put in.
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(02-13-2014, 09:48 PM)Maggot Wrote: I kinda feel like I just stepped into a room full of bubbles.
Tread lightly, Dr. M.
It would blow if you didn't wanna burst them, but you did, but you did, but you did...
Or, maybe not...
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Have you ever thought how sexy shoveling snow is?
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I was thinking about just that before you asked. Weird.
If you happen to shovel snow shirtless, Mr. Hard Nipples, I think my psychic abilities might be improving.
P.s. I'm contemplating changing my name to "Ponderer" before someone else grabs it.
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(02-13-2014, 10:08 PM)HairOfTheDog Wrote: I was daydreaming about just that before you asked. Weird.
If you happen to shovel snow shirtless, Mr. Hard Nipples, I think my psychic abilities might be improving.
P.s. I'm thinking of changing my name to "Ponderous" before someone else grabs it.
You would do well with a bunch of beads or something but its snowing like crazy here and I told my wife to leave the outside alone but she just had to go out and mess up my snowblowing stuff. "It aint gonna stop till 5:00 AM" I said.............but nooooooooooo she had to go out for 45 min and push crap around like she knew what she was doing.
I was sticking a log in the fire when she snuck up behind me all wet and sniveling "Its cold out" she says.
Nobody ever listens to maggot and I had to say " Get in there and take those wet clothes off!!!" So keeping with an MSish storyline ............and a basic beat, I'm not at all offset by your daydream.
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I think I would like your wife.
And, I bet you're glad she doesn't always listen to you.
Sounds like even when she's wrong, she's very alright.
To daydreaming...and snow...and wet headstrong women.
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I rarely get enough snow to actually shovel but I do keep an old broom for sweeping off the steps & the walkway. Whenever he sees me with it he asks if I'm going somewhere. Har Har
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I think Sexy would have appreciated this thread right at the start when her new name was getting her what she wanted. Now, not so much..
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