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PITA!
#21
(09-08-2015, 08:48 AM)Love Child Wrote: Oh dear
Life is too short for drama!
sometimes though, drama makes a short life more interesting.
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#22
Well you choose your battles then. And then when the shit hits the fan you cannot complain about it because I already know what kind of choice was made.
Amen!
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#23
I have to agree with that Love Child, if you are fully informed and you go back to the drama, then you are playing a victim and deserve what you get.

The only reason I told my own PITA story is because you asked me. I try to not over explain but at the same time give a full picture. I think there has been a change of heart of their part, but I am like "oh hell no!". Howzat?
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#24
(09-09-2015, 12:03 AM)Love Child Wrote: Well you choose your battles then. And then when the shit hits the fan you cannot complain about it because I already know what kind of choice was made.
Amen!
the old me complained about the drama, now that I'm adulting(second or third attempt), drama don't bother me as much.
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(09-09-2015, 06:38 AM)aussiefriend Wrote: I have to agree with that Love Child, if you are fully informed and you go back to the drama, then you are playing a victim and deserve what you get.

The only reason I told my own PITA story is because you asked me. I try to not over explain but at the same time give a full picture. I think there has been a change of heart of their part, but I am like "oh hell no!". Howzat?

I am glad you did! I was a little shocked at first, reading it. I know how easy it can happen. I had a friend who got taken advantage of by someone. This person would slowly move their things into her space and before she knew it she had a house full of stuff that wasn't hers-or the other person's either!

After something like that happens it makes a person really aware. I had something sort of similar but not as extreme, I had to acknowledge that I was lonely at the time and I let someone into my life that was not healthy at all. And it usually does happen when you first move to a place because you are trying to make friends!
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