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Would those that know you say you are a nice person or are you a dick?
I don't really care for the word nice, it always signals boring to me but I know that's just me and others don't feel the same.
Are you fun & interesting?
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I am pretty tolerable most of the time. I come off here as the nice, quiet, boring one. But If I get my bitch on, I can get rather nasty.
Fun and interesting works for me most of the time...so long as the people I am interacting with are not dickheads.
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I'm an asshole to lazy pricks, crybaby's and pretty much anyone that doesn't carry their own weight. That does not count people that physically cannot though. I have found some people that are way to serious about shit and I tend to mess with their heads just because. They think I'm an asshole for laughing at them. lame bitches.
He ain't heavy, he's my brother.
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I'm pretty direct and quiet most of the time in real life. It doesn't bother me to be considered nice by people who know me; I like nice people. But, I'm not doormat nice. I'll fight for what's important and don't have any problem going toe-to-toe if it's a battle worth having.
I think I'm more interested than interesting, and probably more funny than fun. I like information and care about what's going on in the world. I like listening to people's views and stories, but I avoid personal drama as much as possible and keep to myself a good deal. When I'm with family or friends, I laugh a hell of a lot and like to make them laugh too - I'm a smart-ass and most of them are too. I'm not the go-to person for action and adventure. I don't have a lot of high times (or low times); pretty mellow mostly. I imagine I'd be considered kinda boring to a lot of people.
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I'm pretty direct and quiet most of the time in real life. It doesn't bother me to be considered nice by people who know me; I like nice people. But, I'm not doormat nice. I'll fight for what's important and don't have any problem going toe-to-toe if it's a battle worth having.
I think I'm more interested than interesting, and probably more funny than fun. I like information and care about what's going on in the world. I like listening to people's views and stories, but I avoid personal drama as much as possible and keep to myself a good deal. When I'm with family or friends, I laugh a hell of a lot and like to make them laugh too - I'm a smart-ass and most of them are too. I'm not the go-to person for action and adventure. I don't have a lot of high times (or low times); pretty mellow mostly. I imagine I'd be considered kinda boring to a lot of people.
I'm the same so I just copied and pasted that instead of writing my own shit. The only thing I would add is that I'm sure my husband and kids think I'm a dick sometimes, however. But the feeling is mutual.
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(10-27-2015, 07:45 AM)Duchess Wrote:
Are you fun & interesting?
To my clients, probably not . . . they want competent, effective and thorough.
To my friends and family . . . yes.
Until my sardonic side kicks in.
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Some of both I would suspect.
Some people I have worked with and for or I have helped think I am the best thing since sliced bread.
Some of the ones that worked for me or that I had to solve their problem and thereby made them look bad because the solution looked so simple I can tell you think I am a dick.
I am a pretty quiet guy most of the time
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I have found that many of my customers can be real pricks when sending e-mails and wanting stuff right away but when they come in they're all nice as pie. They get tough when they aren't face to face, but get them in a room and they just clam up.
Those are the true pricks and once seen behind the façade they portray are really little mealy mouthed worms. I had a secretary like that, she would clam up when someone walked in the room but had a mouthful to say when they were gone.
She didn't last long, she had no balls.
He ain't heavy, he's my brother.