TAKING ON MOCK

[Duchess]

[Carsman]

You a full of excuses Clang. We all have moments where we say negative feedback to ourselves. You need to work harder on yourself. One rule doesn't apply to you that you get screwed over and another for the rest of the world.

I don't know what it is you have to do, but you do! Start there. We all have work to do on ourselves. Come on Clang rennovate yourself instead of trashing the joint inside and out.

Ok Clangster, you can rennovate yourself by buying a brand new pretty dress, put it on, do your face, and walk down the main street of your town every Sunday. Keep doing that until you meet someone (M/F, your choice) doing the same thing, walking in the opposite direction. Then say hello, I'm a virgin are you? And if so, walla, you're all set perfect match!

[aussiefriend]

I am talking about psychological and spiritual workouts and growth. As well as physical.

You surprise me Cars, giving advice on frocks! Who knew?

[Maggot]

I'm doing my spiritual workout right now. It's amazing!!

[Duchess]

I did mine earlier, before the sun came up.

[sally]

I've given up on love. I will die alone. Friend Zone Forever. My dating life/experience is almost zero, except for 2 dates with a psycho and 3 months over 20 years ago. I'm 43, a virgin, overweight, not good looking, crossdress and live with my Dad. What girl/woman could seriously love me?

You look fine, just not as a woman. As I said before you look like a younger David Letterman. And I'm sure he gets all kinds of pussy.

[Midwest Spy]

I've given up on love. I will die alone. Friend Zone Forever. My dating life/experience is almost zero, except for 2 dates with a psycho and 3 months over 20 years ago. I'm 43, a virgin, overweight, not good looking, crossdress and live with my Dad. What girl/woman could seriously love me?

You look fine, just not as a woman. As I said before you look like a younger David Letterman. And I'm sure he gets all kinds of pussy.

Clang, I will say this to you.

When you're in the presence of a woman you like and would like to get to know better, carry yourself with confidence, or even nonchalance.

Don't look desperate, or allow desperation to ooze from your pores.

Women will pick up instantly on what you have going for you, how interesting you are, etc.

In your case, use humor and wit.

But you also have to be able to follow through if someone takes you up on going out for a date.

Would you bring someone back to your place with Dad and Bro?

Your living situation may ultimately be too big of a hurdle to building a relationship. I don't believe any woman would be seriously interested in someone of your age living with kin.

Might be time to make a change.

[Duchess]

In your case, use humor and wit.

Good advice! I know all women aren't like me but if you can't make me laugh, I'm not giving you a second look.

[Carsman]

I like what MS said, good advice!

I made a poor stab at humor, I stink at it!

[aussiefriend]

Besides Clang, it aint easy being a woman, and even harder to look attractive, you have to work at it. You can't just 'frock up' and have it sorted, it's work. Watch RuPauls Drag Race those Queens rule the school and they are more attractive than women!

[Maggot]

That's in your mind, confidence in yourself overwhelms all that shiny tit and painted face stuff. Everything else is just gravy.

[aussiefriend]

Look Maggot, I am confident in myself whether I have war paint on or not, but I'm weird. If I am playing music or presenting professionally I look like I am ready for Mardi Gras.

[Maggot]

That's either avoidance or narcissism. I will choose to use avoidance in your case because you're a big chicken and hide behind the facade to believe in your minds eye that your personality can hide your true self. In other words you are scared when you get in front of a group.

[aussiefriend]

I am not a fucking narcissist Maggot. Mark Chapman the guy who killed John Lennon is a narcissist.

I am an introvert and reclusive, but when I am in public people expect me to engage with them. I am friendly and yes confident. Maggot, I have braces on my teeth for God's sake and always give people a big smile. They love it.

[Clang McFly]

I'm 43, a virgin, overweight, not good looking, crossdress and live with my Dad. What girl/woman could seriously love me?

A hooker?

No they're paid to pretend they love you.

[Clang McFly]

I am talking about psychological and spiritual workouts and growth. As well as physical.

You surprise me Cars, giving advice on frocks! Who knew?

Well I think I was happier when I was going to Church. Maybe I need to get back there. Its been almost 3 years. *looks at gut* Physical growth isn't a problem. I have almost zero willpower to de-growth myself. My psychological growth spurts and then I backslide.

[Clang McFly]

I've given up on love. I will die alone. Friend Zone Forever. My dating life/experience is almost zero, except for 2 dates with a psycho and 3 months over 20 years ago. I'm 43, a virgin, overweight, not good looking, crossdress and live with my Dad. What girl/woman could seriously love me?

You look fine, just not as a woman. As I said before you look like a younger David Letterman. And I'm sure he gets all kinds of pussy.

Clang, I will say this to you.

When you're in the presence of a woman you like and would like to get to know better, carry yourself with confidence, or even nonchalance.

Don't look desperate, or allow desperation to ooze from your pores.

Women will pick up instantly on what you have going for you, how interesting you are, etc.

In your case, use humor and wit.

But you also have to be able to follow through if someone takes you up on going out for a date.

Would you bring someone back to your place with Dad and Bro?

Your living situation may ultimately be too big of a hurdle to building a relationship. I don't believe any woman would be seriously interested in someone of your age living with kin.

Might be time to make a change.

Yeah, problem is the women who like me, find me funny and interesting, and are easy to talk to are either married, have a girlfriend or are ugly and/or crazy.

[Clang McFly]

Don't bother, Clang; with your luck it would end with her preferring to have sex with the dog.

Where are you at these days Zero? I mean that remark is so unhelpful, grotesque and says more about you than it does Clang.

Unhelpful, yes. But kind of amusing. Maybe my problem is that I'm a big kid. Had to refrain from laughing at the name Dawn Sharts at work today.

[Clang McFly]

That's in your mind, confidence in yourself overwhelms all that shiny tit and painted face stuff. Everything else is just gravy.

Agreed. Monkey faced, saggy tits cannongal just oozes confidence.

[Clang McFly]

You a full of excuses Clang. We all have moments where we say negative feedback to ourselves. You need to work harder on yourself. One rule doesn't apply to you that you get screwed over and another for the rest of the world.

I don't know what it is you have to do, but you do! Start there. We all have work to do on ourselves. Come on Clang rennovate yourself instead of trashing the joint inside and out.

Ok Clangster, you can rennovate yourself by buying a brand new pretty dress, put it on, do your face, and walk down the main street of your town every Sunday. Keep doing that until you meet someone (M/F, your choice) doing the same thing, walking in the opposite direction. Then say hello, I'm a virgin are you? And if so, walla, you're all set perfect match!

Finally, some good advice.