Where the heck is Mags?

[HairOfTheDog]

Hopefully, he isn't in an extended Thanksgiving food coma and is out and about having fun.  I miss the wormy bastard when he's not around.

[Duchess]

The last time he was missing like this he was in the hospital. Maggot *wails*

[HairOfTheDog]

That scared the shit outta me.

I really hope he just decided to take the week off and headed off somewhere with his family.

[Love Child]

Oh mags. Where are you?

[imsuchawildflower]

Hey Yall...Been a long long time...Ive been to hell and back the last 3 years...but i never quit thinking of yall.
I would try to log in from time to time to check on yall, but I couldnt get in. I finally contacted Duchess well over
a week ago and its taken us that long to get me in! SO....how are you fuckers?

Ugh....I just realized I didnt post this in the appropriate place. Dangit. Ill figure this shit out again soon. Promise. LOL

[HairOfTheDog]

I'm so glad you made it back in wildflower.

What's been going on in your world? I understand if you don't want to talk about it in detail, but if you do, lay it on us.

Hope your hell has passed or at least lessened, in any case. It's really good to see you here again.

[BigMark]

Apparently imsuchawildflower is Maggots alt, thank god he is okay.

[Rootilda]

I like his new feminine side better.

[imsuchawildflower]

I dont mind talking about it...
first, my grandmother passed away May of 2016, 2 months later we found out my MIL had cancer...
she was more of a mother to me than my own. We were very close, so it was devastating news.
Then worst of all, my beloved husband of 28 years was killed in a motorcycle accident while on a cancer
benefit run, Oct of 2016.
He came around and over a bend\hill and there were 3 deer in the road at dusk. There was nowhere
for him to go, so as a seasoned biker, he laid the bike down, but to no avail. He hit the deer and flipped, with
the bike landing on him each time. Each impact was in itself fatal. He was not speeding and was fully sober.
Its been the worst pain physically and emotionally and mentally that Ive ever felt or could even imagine.
Being a mother and having to see your children in that kind of pain, knowing there is not a damn thing you can do
to fix it, is even more devastating.
87 days later, his mom, my MIL, died.4 months after that, I hurt my ankle at work, and had to have a surgery that
that kept me in a wheelchair for over 4 months, unable to put any weight on it.


Its been a shit show yall.  Some days I look in the mirror and think how the fuck are you still here and thriving and
Im so proud of my strength. Other days I look in the mirror and I fall apart and feel like I cant make it another day.

Im in a pretty good place most days, and so are my kids. Its been 2 years since Mike died and Ive gotten to the
point that I focus most days on the time we had not the time we didnt. I miss my best friend. I never wanted to be
this damn old and be unmarried etc....
SO...I got myself a bf 32 years younger than me that I have fallen for deeply. Ill never marry again, and he never
wants kids or to marry, so its perfect.  Its a perfect fit.
Life is so unfair and ugly on the one hand and so beautiful on the other....always silver linings yall...always. xo

[BigMark]

You're such a tramp maggot!

[imsuchawildflower]

I think the proper term today, would be ho.
and yes....Im ho-ing it up pretty good.

also, Im not maggot. so fuck off with that noise. thanks
theres only one maggot...

[HairOfTheDog]

Shit, you really have been through holy hell wildflower.

I'm very sorry for your losses and admire your strength. Glad to hear the kids are doing okay these days.

Sounds like you're having fun with the boyfriend, that's good. You deserve it. Is he younger than your kids? It doesn't matter, I'm just curious.

[imsuchawildflower]

No. Hes older than my kids. LOL
Hes very much an old soul, and Im young at heart...so we kind of meet in the middle.
We have an incredible amount in common
Plus he understands about my husband.
Thank you for your kind words...
I missed yall!

[Duchess]

Hey Yall...Been a long long time...Ive been to hell and back the last 3 years...but i never quit thinking of yall.
I would try to log in from time to time to check on yall, but I couldnt get in. I finally contacted Duchess well over
a week ago and its taken us that long to get me in! SO....how are you fuckers?

Ugh....I just realized I didnt post this in the appropriate place. Dangit. Ill figure this shit out again soon. Promise. LOL

Oh thank gawd it finally worked! Whew. I'm so glad you didn't give up, I wasn't going to.

[Duchess]

I really hope he just decided to take the week off and headed off somewhere with his family.

That's my hope too. I sent him an email.

[Fry Guy]

Hopefully, he isn't in an extended Thanksgiving food coma and is out and about having fun.  I miss the wormy bastard when he's not around.

I am pleased. When you accused him of what you did in my signature I got the impression you were trying to unperson and dehumanise him but inferring a level of immorality that the lowest in our society may have. But perhaps you were just trying to win an argument and just did not care how you won it or what you said, and meant no bad personal intent. Ideology is all important.

[HairOfTheDog]

I really hope he just decided to take the week off and headed off somewhere with his family.

That's my hope too. I sent him an email.

I hope he sees it and replies soon.  I can hear him in my mind laughing at us for being worry warts; it's a beautiful sound.

[Duchess]

I sent him another email like a creepy old lady. If he wants me to stop doing that he's going to have to respond.

[HairOfTheDog]

I'm really worried too and glad you reached out again.

[Clang McFly]

I'm worried too. I definitely don't have him in my basement next to Ramseycat. I definitely don't need male and female skinsuits.