CROSSING A LINE
#1
Today I saw someone I know very well open her husband's mail. I was so taken aback, I thought it was outrageous and I think I may have even gasped. I've never been up in a man's business like that. I've never opened mail, looked in a man's wallet, checked his cell phone or any of the other shit that I've heard of some women doing. For me personally, that kind of thing crosses a line. Have any of you ever done things like that?
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#2
Never!

Hold on.....*ducks down in the rosebushes*

Whew! The old lady almost saw me.
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#3
My husband throws his fucking mail on my desk for me to open it up and take care of it."Hey I got this letter from the IRS, you better open it up and see what it is". Why don't you open it up, you sonofbitch.
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#4
It probably goes on in homes across the world and I'm outraged over nothing. 
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#6
I don't care and have nothing to hide. Usually its sitting on the table waiting for me though. Unopened.
He ain't heavy, he's my brother.
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#7
Nope and I never would. I'd be pissed off if anyone did it. If they did it "by mistake" I'd be suspicious as Hell
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#8
Depends on what the mail is. Nobody wants your fucking bills so if they said it was a mistake it most likely was. Bills and junk mail is the only mail I seem to get.
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#9
I just don't think anyone should have to lose their privacy simply because they are married or living together. Shiiiiit. I'm not giving up my mail, my passwords or phone to anyone and I'd resent being asked to, I'd forego the relationship before I'd do that.
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#10
I have no desire to look at any of his crap except in his wallet for money. We dont have seperate money or bank accounts or anything.
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#11
Is he your best friend, Sal? You've known him since you were a kid.
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#12
I guess if you want to call someone who gets on your nerves 90 percent of the time your best friend.
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#13
Does he close the door to the bathroom?
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#14
Didn't she say he leaves the door open and loudly grunts?
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#15
I opened my wifes Christmas card from her Aunt today. Opps. She wasn't mad.
He ain't heavy, he's my brother.
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#16
Did you steal the 10 bucks out of it?
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#17
(12-07-2018, 06:37 PM)Duchess Wrote: Does he close the door to the bathroom?

Yes, who the fuck doesn't close the bathroom door when they go to the bathroom? Except me when I have to pee really bad and there is no time to do anything.
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#18
(12-08-2018, 06:32 PM)sally Wrote:
(12-07-2018, 06:37 PM)Duchess Wrote: Does he close the door to the bathroom?

Yes, who the fuck doesn't close the bathroom door when they go to the bathroom?
I don't close the bathroom door. Who cares? It's just a bunch of old fat fuck guys. Plus you'd have have to stick your head far into the bathroom doorway to see anything. The big ass sink is by the door and the toilet is like 2 inches from the shower.
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(12-08-2018, 06:30 PM)sally Wrote: Did you steal the 10 bucks out of it?

hah  It was a surprisingly large sum. her family spits and it hits the ground as gold. Besides it was a check.
He ain't heavy, he's my brother.
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#20
Where I have worked I open up my bosses mail. I leave the private looking stuff for him however. Like if it is a card. I always feel wierd opening their mail though. Especially when I see bills or bank statements. Ugh.

A place I used to work at-he opened up all of his wife's mail. They only have a PO box and no mail goes to the home. It always felt controlling to me. She rarely checked the mail, only when she knew a package was coming for her.

And when they got personal cards, they would look at them and throw them away right away. So wierd to me!

I did not look at my husband's mail when I was married. I didn't feel the need to look at his cell phone either. He wasn't very good about hiding shit on the computer however and I would find stuff all the time but he never wanted to talk about it. (He didn't want to share his porn fetishes).

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