07-11-2022, 05:13 AM
I have noticed in this part and others that people are struggling, no surprise there. There is no magic pill, but i would recommend, not fixing yourself, but getting to know yourself first. You probably havent heard of Carl Jung, he was a genius psychiatrist from the early 20th century.
He developed an approach that defines how people function, and was able to develop a system to define how you function, and with that, be able to become aware of how you behave. And you behave in certain ways not because you choose too, but because that is your innate nature.
It was certainly the case in my case. I am of a type that needs managing, if we can call it that, as we all do. To find out who i am, was liberating, that led me onto different paths and much better ones. And what i thought were personal failings were not, but a kernel of something bigger and better. And by understanding them, i solved the problems i had, or made them better.
For instance, i can be too passive in the face of trouble, then explode, there was no middle path. There is now, though i do fail sometimes. Chang, you say you are wasting time, there is a reason. Most are on antii depressants, well you can now address it.
There is the Myers Briggs foundation, you need to read that. To take the test you need to pay, but there are free tests if you look. Your mind is like a computer, when you were born, it had no programmes, now it does. A lot of those programmes dont help, you need to change them. Unfortunately, they are unconscious. This is important, as important as Myers Briggs, you need to study the subconscious mind and how it works.
The subconscious is the big daddy of them all, and contains the path to higher things. I can sign post you if there is any interest.
He developed an approach that defines how people function, and was able to develop a system to define how you function, and with that, be able to become aware of how you behave. And you behave in certain ways not because you choose too, but because that is your innate nature.
It was certainly the case in my case. I am of a type that needs managing, if we can call it that, as we all do. To find out who i am, was liberating, that led me onto different paths and much better ones. And what i thought were personal failings were not, but a kernel of something bigger and better. And by understanding them, i solved the problems i had, or made them better.
For instance, i can be too passive in the face of trouble, then explode, there was no middle path. There is now, though i do fail sometimes. Chang, you say you are wasting time, there is a reason. Most are on antii depressants, well you can now address it.
There is the Myers Briggs foundation, you need to read that. To take the test you need to pay, but there are free tests if you look. Your mind is like a computer, when you were born, it had no programmes, now it does. A lot of those programmes dont help, you need to change them. Unfortunately, they are unconscious. This is important, as important as Myers Briggs, you need to study the subconscious mind and how it works.
The subconscious is the big daddy of them all, and contains the path to higher things. I can sign post you if there is any interest.