What is the proper response

[MirahM]

When a guy shows you pictures of his kids, or grandkids?

[sally]

Lie and say they’re cute kids and then ask how old they are. If they really are cute than you wouldn’t be lying, but either way just say they’re cute.

[crash]

Unsolicited kid pics are far better than unsolicited dik pics, apparently..

[BlueTiki]

When a guy shows you pictures of his kids, or grandkids?

If they're all the same race race, give a slightly puzzled look.  Then respond with: "Hmmm . . . all the same race. Interesting."

[BigMark]

Say oh my, on the spectrum.

[BlueTiki]

Say oh my, on the spectrum.

With a :  "Didn't realize you heated your home with a renewable resource.  How's the woodpile looking, this year ?"

[MirahM]

LOL

I love you all.

Thank you.

[cannongal]

When a guy shows you pictures of his kids, or grandkids?

There's no context here.  Did he show them during a date?  During an event?  Was he just a neighbor?

[MirahM]

It was a event, low key event, less than 20 people. He is someone I am interested in-AND actually another guy I mentioned here earlier also talks about his kids a lot-I've never run into this so much-and when I say kids, I mean grown kids-in thier 20's.

These are guys I could potentially date or fuck whatever you kids are saying now days and they just want to talk about thier kids and I'm like, "Do you have any other life besides being a parent?"

I feel so shallow saying that. I know kids are peoples lives, I don't have any kids, I don't know how to relate, people who have dogs are much easier to relate to.

[MirahM]

I forgot to mention-he is coming over for dinner tomorrow night.

[MirahM]

My sister asked what i was going to make. I was like, "I really don't care" I'm just going to set down a can of soup and say do you want to eat first or fuck first?

[BigMark]

Super sex! I'll take the soup.

[Duchess]

 I'm just going to set down a can of soup and say do you want to eat first or fuck first?

[MirahM]

How would you react

when a person you are hanging out with is showing you tik toks and one pops up of his ex, she looks 20 something, she is actually 33 he said, and he is 60 something and you are 40 something, does it feel awkward? Do you feel like, "Wow maybe I am too old for this person?" or do you ignore it, skip it and move on?

P.S. I am giving up on dating again. Life is too complicated for any of this.

[Duchess]

I might make a joke about him robbing the cradle and move on. I think that 9 times out of ten once one gets to be his age it is qualities that attract a person rather than the superficial stuff like looks and age.